when i realized the enemy wasn’t out there.

Maybe it was the parents that told me I could never really do my job with college students well because I didn’t have children of my own.

Maybe it was the never-ending musical chairs as I’d rearrange myself at dinner tables to avoid splitting up any newlywed couples.

Maybe it was the friend who said, “You’re just not in my orbit anymore,” when we discussed the change in our friendship as she began a new relationship.

Or maybe it was the discontent inside my own head and heart that caused me to turn anyone and everyone who had what I wanted into the enemy.

Read the rest of my thoughts on singleness and community over at the smitten word

The Long TableSuzannah and I met a lifetime ago as counselors at summer camp and bonded over campfires and Club.  She now calls that summer camp home and raises children and chickens, while writing beautiful stories of grace and redemption at the smitten word.  She’s graciously allowed me to write over on her site today, and I’d love it if you’d click on over to read and leave some love on her site–it’s scary to put this stuff out there!

 

 

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  • http://somuchshoutingsomuchlaughter.com/ suzannah | the smitten word

    this post is awesome. thank you, friend.

  • http://twitter.com/suziwalks suziwalks

    me too. thank you.

    • http://kellychadwick.org/ Kelly Chadwick

      sometimes “me too” is balm to our souls. may you feel seen, noticed, and valued today.

  • Ms. Patti

    Read the smitten word. IT IS POWERFUL KELLY! Keep writing Sweetie! You are sharing some powerful truths that WE all need to hear. Love you!

  • Robyn

    I had often felt the same way, Kelly! I’ve found that whatever “club” you’re apart of… be it the singles, the newly married, the older guys with kids… there is always that voice that seems to tempt you to want to be in the other group. But it is so good to listen to what God says about where you are and how much He loves you and it’s not anyone’s fault for “missed opportunities” because if He wanted you to have those opportunities, He will do it in His time. Thank you for writing your blog and your honesty.